The perspectives of each person can make the difference between a successful
mediation for divorce and a long drawn out battle in court. If you can
see beyond the divorce and hold hope for your life, then there is less
to worry about and pick apart. If you focus solely on the divorce, hanging
onto every detail, the divorce will eat you up and your recovery will
be much more difficult. During a divorce, both parties can be consumed
with paperwork and sorting through what needs to be divided. I have heard
clients say that it has felt like a full time job when they litigate their
divorce. Of course it is if you feel you must hang onto every knick knack
in the house and count every single penny before making a decision. Mediation
gives both people a chance to start working on their futures in the midst
of the divorce. When you know that there are better things around the
corner, it makes the pain in front of you less bothersome. Mediation doesn’t
mean the outcome would be different than if it was litigated. Especially
when working with CMD, you have an attorney who understands the law and
can inform you about what the law says so you make the decisions that
are right for you.
Give us a call to see how we can help change your perspective on divorce.
