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  • Common Mediation Myths

    In legal situations in which you prefer to save time, money, and effort, many people turn to mediation as a solution. Despite how overwhelmingly positive mediation is for countless people in the midst of a legal concern, there are many misconceptions regarding its success or purpose. At Alternative Divorce Solutions, we seek to dispel these myths as we are true believers in the power of mediation ...
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  • Steps in the Mediation Process

    Mediation is becoming increasingly popular in the legal realm as a way to resolve issues and disputes in an efficient and effective manner. When 2 people attempt to work out their problem, mediation is often the optimal way of doing so. However, many people are intimidated by the prospect of embarking on a non-traditional way of fixing their issues. Our team at Alternative Divorce Solutions seeks ...
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  • How Long Does Divorce Take?

    When you file for a divorce, chances are you are eager to move forward with your life and put this emotional experience behind you. As such, you might be wondering how long your divorce will take. The fact is that no two divorce cases are alike and there is no set time for how long this process is supposed to take. However, in California, those who file for a divorce cannot expect their marriage ...
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  • Mediation vs. Litigation: A Comparison

    Mediation vs. Litigation: A Comparison Most people do not fully understand the drastic differences between divorce mediation and litigation. There are so many factors at play ranging from the cost of the process to the emotional impact that the process will have on you and your family. In this article, we will illustrate the differences between divorce mediation to help you make an informed ...
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  • First Timers Guide To Divorce: What to Expect Emotionally

    There is a reason that people are constantly saying that divorce is an emotional rollercoaster. Since you are experiencing a tragic loss (of your marriage, your partner, and maybe your hopes and dreams), you will go through the grieving process in one way or another. There is nothing that anyone can say or do to change this, but being prepared can help you weather the storm. First, it is natural ...
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  • First Timers Guide To Divorce Mediation: What to Expect

    We can’t count how many times a couple has come into my office for an initial consultation and stated “this is our first time, and we don’t know where to start.” Let’s be honest. Divorce is not something that anyone wants to do once, let alone more than once. With sky rocketing divorce rates all over the country, you are one of the lucky few who can say you have never been through a divorce ...
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  • Parenting Through Summer Break and Other Holidays

    Even when you are going through mediation, divorce with children is never easy. Since your children were born, you and your family have been going about things a certain way. You have planned family vacations, birthday parties, and other events as a family unit. Often times, if one of the parents stays at home with the children while the other works, this parent has been doing a majority of the ...
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  • How to Prepare for a High-Asset Divorce

    Divorce is rarely easy for anyone, but divorces involving high assets can be even more complicated than you might think. People of high net worth include those who have at least $1 million in liquid assets, meaning they can convert it to cash at any time. Individuals who meet this criterion often have incredibly complex financial portfolios, significant amounts of property, and potentially, ...
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  • Mediation & Parenting Plans

    Matters relating to child custody , visitation, and child support are often some of the most contested issues in divorce cases. Instead of addressing the issue of a parenting plan in court, through litigation, it is often in the best interests of all parties involved, especially the children, that divorcing spouses cooperate and use mediation as a means of reaching a mutually satisfying agreement. ...
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  • The Benefits of Mediation vs. Litigation in Divorce

    Divorce has the potential to be a long, arduous, and expensive process, especially when spouses refuse to cooperate or communicate in a respectful manner. However, doing so means missing out on the benefits a process like mediation presents to both parties. Litigation can be messy, ultimately taking control from spouses and leaving critical decisions up to the court. Mediation allows spouses to ...
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  • Navigating a "Gray Divorce"

    In recent years, the number of divorces with older couples, known as “gray divorces,” has risen dramatically. If you are considering pursuing one of these divorce options, there is a chance it could dramatically improve your quality of life for your later years. However, many people are unaware of what must be considered in a gray divorce. In many cases, a couple entering a gray divorce will have ...
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  • Three Things to Look For in a Divorce Mediator

    When attempting to find an attorney to represent you or a mediator to oversee the proceedings of your divorce, you likely will not be short of options in Orange County. But how are you supposed to know which one is the right choice for your case? This is an important decision, but can also become stressful if you are having a hard time choosing. Fortunately, there are a few key things to look for ...
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  • Four Unlikely Candidates For Divorce Mediation

    Thousands of divorces take place in Orange County, CA each year. In fact, people are filing for divorce on a daily basis. Some of these couples are taking the “do it yourself” approach to divorce, while others have already hired attorneys to represent them. Others know that they are ready to move forward with their divorce, but aren’t sure what route is right for them. If you are reading this post ...
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  • 7 Reasons Why Divorce Mediation Isn't the Popular Choice

    When struggling to situate through a divorce, many people may not consider mediation. Sometimes, it’s because soon-to-be-ex couples don’t even know its an available option. However, in most cases, mediation actually is beneficial! Regardless, in order to see the benefits, we need to address why divorce mediation is not “the popular choice”: 1. People Don’t Know Much About It. Did you know that ...
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  • A Closer look at Successful Relationships in California

    Californians take pride in a wide variety of valued tributes: fit lifestyles, sunny beaches, warm weather, and more recently, its happy marriages. According to The Street, the state of California is the 8th least-likely-to-divorce , with over half of the population married, 9.8 percent divorced and 2.4 percent separated. In other words, for every 1,000 marriages in California per year, there are ...
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  • The 10 Best Undiscovered Support Groups in the OC

    When a large change happens in your life, you can expect to feel as if the floor has fallen out from under you. Everything you once knew may have changed, which can be devastating. Despite the new dynamic of your every day, life goes on and so must you. In the face of an event such as divorce, many people find that moving on is much easier said than done. The ending of a marriage is one of the ...
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  • Divorce Mediation Creates a Customized Outcome

    Divorce mediation is a much different way to resolve your divorce than going to court. When you go to court to get your divorce, you and your spouse will each hire separate attorneys who will meet and get to know them. Then, the attorneys will appear in court to ask the judge for different things that vary from property division to child and spousal support. Divorce mediation, on the other hand, ...
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  • Divorce Mediation is a Team Effort

    Divorce mediators work very hard to help their clients reach agreements out of court. This is no easy task, as the divorce mediator must work with both spouses at the same time. This takes a lot of time, communication, and effort. Divorce mediation can be a successful process for you if you and your spouse want to settle your divorce out of court, without spending unnecessary time and money with ...
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  • Preparing for Divorce Mediation in Orange County

    Divorce mediation is the most cost effective and efficient way to handle your divorce. That being said, many couples who are considering divorce do not know much about the divorce mediation process. Often, couples come in for their free consultation asking questions like “how long does the divorce mediation process take” or “what is expected of us”? This post will give you a sense of what you can ...
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  • Divorce Mediation and Spousal Support

    When couples are married, it is common for one spouse to stay home to raise the children while the other spouse continues to work. It is also very common for one spouse to earn more income than the other spouse even when both people are working. The law provides a way to deal with these situations and allows the spouse who needs financial help to receive spousal support. In divorce mediation, ...
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  • Your Assets and Divorce Mediation

    When people are considering divorce, fear immediately sets in. They begin to think “I have never been through divorce before … what will happen to my assets?” For people who choose to go to court for their divorce, there are legitimate concerns about what will happen to their assets for a couple reasons. First, the amount of money spent on attorney’s fees is a great unknown. Even though an average ...
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  • Divorce Mediation and Children

    Orange County, CA has one of the highest divorce rates in the nation. As the divorce rate continues to climb, there are more and more children who visit their parents in separate houses and come from divorced households. The decision to divorce is always a very difficult one. When there are minor children involved, this choice can be even more challenging. Do the parents stay together “for the ...
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  • ThreeTips for Dealing with Stress During Divorce Mediation

    Divorce mediation has a strong reputation for being a less emotionally taxing way to divorce. While this is true, it is still a divorce and there is going to be stress involved. Managing this stress will be key to getting through the process as whole as possible. Here are some helpful hints for managing stress from our team at Alternative Divorce Solutions: 1. Take some time to yourself Think back ...
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  • Divorce Mediation Expectations

    At Alternative Divorce Solutions, so many of our clients come to their divorce mediation consultation without knowing what to expect. Many times, it is their first marriage and therefore their first divorce. The consultation appointment can be stressful and quite frankly, frightening. To help ease the fear of the unknown, we have created this list of what to expect during divorce mediation. We ...
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  • 3 Keys to Cooperating in Divorce Mediation

    Divorce mediation is a process that requires the cooperation of both spouses. In fact, the whole foundation of divorce mediation is based on the concept of transparency, cooperation, and reasonableness. At Alternative Divorce Solutions, we often tell our clients what the “likely” outcome would be if they went to court. Of course, this usually can’t be predicted with 100% accuracy because you never ...
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